Why I Let Daisy Marry Tom (2)

Okay, so maybe Daisy wouldn't have gotten married to Tom if I had given into her drunk words. In my defense, at the time, she was extremely drunk. It was clear her judgement was extremely impaired and she had been so happy recently. She had just stopped her nightly crying about Gatsby and I could not let her ruin her newfound happy relationship, especially the night before her wedding. It also didn't hurt that Tom had quite a bit of money. I knew Gatsby would always be in her heart but I wanted to believe she loved Tom. Now I regret not listening to her drunken slurs that she had changed her mind. I let my opinions of what was best for her outweigh what she needed. This marriage was just a mess and I cannot help but feel slightly responsible. I hated the way he treated her but I couldn't get myself to confront the situation. This was one of my first experiences with guilt. I take unconditional pride with everything I do. Usually... I can tell that this relationship only filled her materialistic needs, but ultimately broke her. I was so angry at Jay for leading Daisy on that I let Daisy's letter dissolve in a cold bath I put her in. I was content with my decisions until Tom revealed his true colors. I didn't mean to allow my friend to marry an abusive man, but I did. I did fully consider her feelings and I truly wish I would have listened to her.

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  1. UnknownMay 18, 2017 at 7:35 AM

    Why are you taking about my relationship with Daisy? I understand that you’re friends with her, but this matter is really none of your business. I treat Daisy like a princess and I have supplied her with more than she needs, not just material objects. We have developed a strong relationship over the years. Our relationship is different because Daisy understands I have other needs besides her. How dare you call me abusive! I have never abused someone in my life. I’m Tom Buchanan, a renowned polo player coming from the richest family from East Egg. Daisy is lucky to have me!
    -Tom Buchanan

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  2. UnknownMay 24, 2017 at 5:49 AM

    Jordan ... Thank you for being my best friend. Truly the best friend I could ask for. Do not blame yourself for my actions. Although I am now stuck in this marriage with Tom I still have a great friend like you. Thank you for helping and supporting me in anyway possible. Even when I would cheat on Tom. Remember that you seriously are the best friend any girl could ask for.


    ... Daisy <3

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